User blog comment:Vesther/Watch your discussions please/@comment-24629108-20140327154738

there are 2 kinds of things people can "see" as disrespect

we got the "Joe Doe, you are a dork(or worse)" and the "Joe Doe, I think what you posted(or did) was wrong(or a mistake)"

the first one I can understand why one can easily respond to, but............. usually the best action is keep it diplomatic with either: do whatever action is needed(suspend person, erase post or whatever) or just say "keep it civil, last warning"; never start a discussion and reduce oneself to the offender's size

the second one should take it as constructive criticism, analyze why the other person said so, and decide that the one criticizing was correct, or you were right, or find a common ground, or see that is simply a difference of opinions and both POV are legit, one should never see polite criticizing as disrespect