Thread:NessaTasartir16/@comment-34597974-20160426120404/@comment-25064703-20160426172555

Okay, Joanne, I want/need to chime in too.

1. Don't let someone's kind actions get you carried away. Nessa and Koi have shown concern for you in the past, but that does not mean  that they will have your back all the time. They were doing so in the interest of peace and good will in the wiki, not to appease you and only you. Like Koi already said, neither of them is your mother.

2. Learn to talk to the people who you think are "bullying" you. Understand them first. Maybe they're not even bullying you, maybe that's just their response. Negotiate so both sides are happy. In these kinds of things, where both parties are rational, understanding, and approachable human beings, it's totally fine.

3. Accept that not everyone will be on the same wavelength as you and not everyone will be happy by your actions and not everyone will tolerate you. That's the reality of life in general.

4. Never paint people who don't treat you like you want to be treated as bad people. You always complain about Reg, Rifqi, all the other people like that and you always make it seem like you're a helpless and defenseless person being ganged up upon by the big, bad meanies. I know these people and they are not that. It annoys them and a lot of other people when you do that. Have your personal judgments, that's fine, but don't do that when you're talking to other people about these matters.

Okay, that's it. I hope this doesn't come off as rude or anything... It's just some advice. Hopefully I didn't give any particularly bad advice.